vala-dbus-binding-tool: upgrade to different 0.4.0 release

* new version of vala-dbus-binding-tool was released with 0.4.0 version
  but unfortunately there already was 0.4.0 and 0.4.1 version, see
  comment in git recipe for more details
* be aware that it's actually newer than 0.4.1 used before
  and it's compatible with gee-0.8 which is newer than gee-1.0
  and yes I know how incorrect it sounds, but it's truth
* remove negative preference from git recipe so it's used by default
  and most people wont notice the mess with 0.4.0 archives

Signed-off-by: Martin Jansa <Martin.Jansa@gmail.com>